It relates to your kid -- you&#39ve been back three times to the hospital,也许这事业跟孩子有关--你已经去医院三趟了，and they still don&#39t know what&#39s wrong. Or it could be your mom.医生们还是查不出你孩子的病因。或者生病的是你母亲。And you&#39d been acting out of character. These are free traits.你会做一些跟你的性格不相符的事情。这些是可变的性格特点。You&#39re very a

Now, as an introvert, I might gently allude to certain &quotassholic&quot qualities in this man&#39s behavior,作为一名内向者，我也许会委婉地暗示这个人的行为确实比较混蛋，but I&#39m not going to lunge for the a-word.但我不会直接使用“混蛋”这个词。But the extrovert says, &quotIf he walks like one, if he talks like one, I call him one.&quot但外向者会说

I had a consulting contract I shared with a colleague who&#39s as different from me as two people can possibly be.我跟一名同事共同，负责一项咨询业务，我跟他是截然不同的两个人。First, his name is Tom. Mine isn&#39t.首先，他叫汤姆。我不叫汤姆。Secondly, he&#39s six foot five. I have a tendency not to be.其次，他身高1米96。我这辈子是不指望了。And thirdly, he&#39s

We communicate differently, extroverts and introverts.外向者和内向者的交流方式有所不同。Extroverts, when they interact, want to have lots of social encounter punctuated by closeness.外向者在与人互动时喜欢肢体接触，喜欢亲近对方。They&#39d like to stand close for comfortable communication.他们喜欢靠近对方近距离交流。They like to have a lot of eye contact

Sometimes we may find that we don&#39t take care of ourselves.有时候我们对自己太狠。I find, for example, after a period of pseudo-extroverted behavior,我发现自己在假装外向性格一段时间之后，I need to repair somewhere on my own.我需要自己躲起来疗伤。As Susan Cain said in her &quotQuiet&quot book,就像苏珊·凯恩在《安静》这本书中所写，in a chapter that featured