TED演讲:如何培养出成功的小孩(5)
And so with our overhelp, our overprotection and overdirection and hand-holding, 随着我们的过度帮助,过度保护,过度指导和过度关怀, we deprive our kids of the chance to build self-efficacy, which is a really fundamental tenet of the human psyche, 我们剥夺了孩子建立自我能效的机会,自我能效是人类心智的重要准则, far more important than that self-esteem they get every time we a...